Two of the hottest singer’s in the game right now have bonded over some first world beauty problems involving a high ponytail and the pain it takes to rock the effortless look. Camila Cabello was at the MTV European Music Awards Sunday night and had her up in a ponytail to match her spaghetti strap red dress.

Clearly, she couldn’t take the strain on her brain and tweeted at the ponytail enthusiasts, Ariana Grande, asking her how she does it all the time. “I just did a high ponytail for the first time and it is literally pulling on my BRAIN ITS SO PAINFUL HOW DO YOU DO IT,” she wrote to the “God Is A Woman” singer.

“Well u actually have hair so that prolly makes it a lil more painful ….. nah jk i’m in constant pain always and don’t care at all,” Ariana responded. Later in the night Camila let her hair down and updated Ariana, throwing in a little free promo for Ariana’s latest single, “Thank u, Next.”

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Ariana’s latest single touched on her past boyfriends Mac Miller, Big Sean, and ex-fiance Pete Davidson. She and Pete reportedly had a truce to not talk about their breakup to the public but he couldn’t help himself on the recent airing of SNL. “I know some of you are curious about the breakup, but the truth is, it’s nobody’s business and sometimes things just don’t work out and that’s OK,” he said. “She’s a wonderful, strong person and I genuinely wish her all the happiness in the world.”